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We Have Finally Started To Sleep Train B (17th January 2021)

We Have Finally Started To Sleep Train B (17th January 2021)
 
#YesterdayWeFinallyDecidedThatWeShouldStartSleepTrainingB
#IHaveWantedToDoItForAWhileButIHaveBeenReallyTiredLatelyAndWeAllNeedOurSleep
#IWasAlsoHesitantToGiveUpMyOfficeSlashStudioAsBHasToSleepInThereInsteadOfOurRoomForTheDurationOfIt
#WeGotUpAtEightThirtyYesterdayMorningAfterBHadBeenFedAt5
#WeHaveBeenJustFeedingHerToGetHerToGoBackToSleepLately
#IDoNotLikeDoingThatButWithHerSleepingInOurRoomAndTiagoWorkingDuringTheDayWeDoNotLikeToLetHerCryForLong
#SoSheWentDownToSleepPrettyEasyAndWeGaveHerHerDummyButSaidWeWereNotGoingToKeepGivingItBackToHer
#ThenSheWokeUpAtTwoThirtyAndSheSeemedOkay
#AndThenSheDidNotSleepForThreeHours
#ITookThisPhotoAtAboutThreeThirty
#AfterAWhileWeThoughtWeShouldCheckHerNappyAndItDidNeedToBeChanged
#AndThenSheStillDidNotSleep
#InTheEndWeTurnedOnTheHeatingInHerRoomAndSheFellAsleep
#WeFeltReallyBadAsThatRoomIsColdAndThatIsAnotherReasonWhyWeHaveDelayedMovingHerOutOfOurRoom
#TiagoSaidIShouldGoBackToSleepButICouldNotSleepUntilSheFellAsleep
#ThisMorningWeGotUpJustBefore8AsWeWereAllSoTired
#SoonHopefullyWeWillAllBeGettingUpAt7FeelingGreat
#WeHaveStartedToGiveHerMoreMilkBeforeSheGoesToBedInHopeThatWeCanDropTheDreamfeed
#TiagoTriedToDoADreamfeedLastNightButBBarelyDrankAnySoSheDidGoALongTimeWithoutBeingFed
#SheEatsFairlyWellDuringTheDayButMaybeNowSheWillEatMoreIfSheReallyIsHungry
#InMyLastEntryISaidThatBHadStoppedScreamingOnHerFrontInHerCot
#WellSheHasStartedToDoThatAgain
#ButThenAgainTheOtherNightSheWasScreamingALotAndIPickedHerUpToSootheHerAndSheBurped
#SoThatWasALessonInRememberingToWindBEvenAfterMealsWhereSheHasJustHadWater
#IAmStillFeelingStressedOutByBsMealsEvenThoughIKnowSheIsGettingAGoodBalancedDiet
#TiagoWentToTheSupermarketLastNightSoHopefullyICanTryToMakeSomeNewDishesForHer
#HopefullyWeArePastTheWorstNightOfTheSleepTraining
#WeAreGoingToTryToNotGiveBHerDummyNowAsSheJustConstantlyDropsItInHerCotAndSheIsNotToCleverAtPuttingItBackInHerself
#WeUsuallyCoverUpHerHandsButLastNightIDidNotInHopeThatSheMightComfortHerself
#ButThisMorningHerHandsWereFreezingAndIJustNeedToMakeSureThatHerNailsAreFiledWellAsSheEasilyScratchesHerself
 

#YesterdayWeFinallyDecidedThatWeShouldStartSleepTrainingB #IHaveWantedToDoItForAWhileButIHaveBeenReallyTiredLatelyAndWeAllNeedOurSleep

I’m sure that I have been mentioning it for at least 2 months…

#IWasAlsoHesitantToGiveUpMyOfficeSlashStudioAsBHasToSleepInThereInsteadOfOurRoomForTheDurationOfIt

Maybe it will just become B’s room and she will never move back into our room. That is probably how it should be. It feels nice to have our own room again. Though our bedroom is not good for a studio as it has no flat plain walls, but maybe this will encourage me to get more creative with my practice.

#WeGotUpAtEightThirtyYesterdayMorningAfterBHadBeenFedAt5

We always aim to get up at 7. It is easier when B is crying and wants to get up, but she rarely cries bang on 7.

#WeHaveBeenJustFeedingHerToGetHerToGoBackToSleepLately #IDoNotLikeDoingThatButWithHerSleepingInOurRoomAndTiagoWorkingDuringTheDayWeDoNotLikeToLetHerCryForLong

We had also been trying to wait a few minutes before going over to her, but it’s not easy when she slept less than 2 metres away from me.

#BWentToSleepPrettyQuicklyLastNightAndWeGaveHerHerDummyButSaidWeWereNotGoingToKeepGivingItBackToHer

I did cheat and gave it back to her once, but then she went to sleep. Then I said okay I will not give it to her again…

#ThenSheWokeUpAtTwoThirtyAndSheSeemedOkay

Her crying was not that bad.

#AndThenSheDidNotSleepForThreeHours

We kept going in to comfort her from time to time – we did not let her cry for 3 hours.

#ITookThisPhotoAtAboutThreeThirty

It’s orange/red from my phone’s night filter.

#AfterAWhileWeThoughtWeShouldCheckHerNappyAndItDidNeedToBeChanged

Maybe she’ll go to sleep now that it’s changed?

#AndThenSheStillDidNotSleep

Nope.

#InTheEndWeTurnedOnTheHeatingInHerRoomAndSheFellAsleep

We did think that it was a bit cold when we were popping in. She sleeps in a thick sleeping bag, but obviously it was still too cold.

#WeFeltReallyBadAsThatRoomIsColdAndThatIsAnotherReasonWhyWeHaveDelayedMovingHerOutOfOurRoom

We need to have a look at the radiator. We did think about doing the sleep training but it had been really cold – last night was not so bad.

#TiagoSaidIShouldGoBackToSleepButICouldNotSleepUntilSheFellAsleep

He wanted me to sleep, but I couldn’t. I wish I had been more productive with the three hours but oh well.

#ThisMorningWeGotUpJustBefore8AsWeWereAllSoTired

I do not like getting up so late as her naps have to be super short. Maybe she will sleep slightly earlier as she had less sleep last night, but probably not.

#SoonHopefullyWeWillAllBeGettingUpAt7FeelingGreat

Lol. Doubt it.

#WeHaveStartedToGiveHerMoreMilkBeforeSheGoesToBedInHopeThatWeCanDropTheDreamfeed

She is starting to drink more water during the day, but not loads so she probably does need a good drink before bed.

#TiagoTriedToDoADreamfeedLastNightButBBarelyDrankAnySoSheDidGoALongTimeWithoutBeingFed

We gave her 5oz of milk before bed, and tried to give her 6oz at the dreamfeed but she drank 2oz. If we had given her 7oz before bed, she would have had the same amount right? That’s what we’ll try tonight.

#SheEatsFairlyWellDuringTheDayButMaybeNowSheWillEatMoreIfSheReallyIsHungry

I have been a bit worried that she has been not eating as much as she should as she is having a lot of calories at night? Let’s see. She did used to go from 10pm to 6/7am without a feed, so I know she can do it.

We have just been feeding her more as she has been teething, but apparently teething will not have that much of an impact on sleep.

#InMyLastEntryISaidThatBHadStoppedScreamingOnHerFrontInHerCot #WellSheHasStartedToDoThatAgain

Typical. Last night some of trips to B’s room did involve rolling her back over. We need to get her to learn how to roll back asap.

#ButThenAgainTheOtherNightSheWasScreamingALotAndIPickedHerUpToSootheHerAndSheBurped #SoThatWasALessonInRememberingToWindBEvenAfterMealsWhereSheHasJustHadWater

I think now that she is older I forget that sometimes she does need to be burped.

(6th February: I still keep forgetting to do this. Whoops.)

#IAmStillFeelingStressedOutByBsMealsEvenThoughIKnowSheIsGettingAGoodBalancedDiet #TiagoWentToTheSupermarketLastNightSoHopefullyICanTryToMakeSomeNewDishesForHer

I spend too much time worrying about B and her meals.

#HopefullyWeArePastTheWorstNightOfTheSleepTraining #WeAreGoingToTryToNotGiveBHerDummyNowAsSheJustConstantlyDropsItInHerCotAndSheIsNotToCleverAtPuttingItBackInHerself

It makes sense to stop giving her one as she doesn’t use it at any other point during the day. I wish we had never started to give her one but oh well. It seemed right at the time.

(6th February: I have been thinking a lot about this after saying that. We lived in a flat before and I was super worried about annoying the neighbours, so it made sense.)

#WeUsuallyCoverUpHerHandsButLastNightIDidNotInHopeThatSheMightComfortHerself #ButThisMorningHerHandsWereFreezingAndIJustNeedToMakeSureThatHerNailsAreFiledWellAsSheEasilyScratchesHerself

Yesterday I did not cover her hands during a nap and she has a scratch on her nose. Last night before she went to bed I filed her nails, but it seems like they need to be filed ALL THE TIME. They are always sharp. We just need to keep her room warm and as soon as she starts crying we should turn it on – we need to get one of those smart plugs where we can control it from a phone. I just ordered one…


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